Healing Praise - Pray it Forward

Healing Praise – Pray it Forward

Usually when Red (Kerry’s dad) sees the vampires this usually means he had some blood drawn for an upcoming doctor’s appointment. This week was going to be different. On Wednesday, Red came up to us and told us he was having some tummy discomfort. We jumped into action trying to determine what the cause was.

He said that he felt constipated and for the rest of the day we tried everything we could to help him feel better (to get things moving). The next morning (Thursday) when he came into the kitchen, we could tell by the look on his face that he had a sleepless night. A call was placed to his primary care physician and it was suggested that we get him over to the E.R. It was going to end up being an all day event.

Kerry’s sister, Tina, took Red to the hospital and together they dealt with all that the E.R. had to give. A blood test was ordered as well as a cat scan. When all the data started coming in from the various tests, the news ended up being better than expected. There was no blockage in his intestines (an intestinal blockage can be a serious issue). They did give Red some morphine to help with the discomfort and that seemed to help him relax. They also determined that his anemia was something that needed to be addressed. They gave him a unit of blood.

When Red came home, after a long day at the hospital, he had that glow back on his cheeks. He was feeling a thousand times better and as we left for San Diego the following day (Friday) Red was still doing great. Saturday, when we called to see how everyone in Tucson was doing, we were told that all was well.

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Here is my prayer;

O Father and Holy Spirit, please hear my prayer. There are so many people who are caring for their elderly loved ones. Please give these caregivers strength, insight and patience. Our aging loved ones may sometimes feel lost, and trapped within their broken bodies. Please allow us to be their light, to illuminate their path throughout their final journey. Generous Father, I pray that you overflow the cups of those we care for so that their remaining days are joyful ones. I ask that you strengthen and bless the family as they surround their aging loved one. May the family spiritual bond grow stronger. Our Father, I also give you praise for the healing we see in those we love. We look forward to the ultimate healing, when we come to Your home, our heavenly reward. For all of these things I pray, in your son’s name. Amen.

Don't Pull My Leg - Pull My Tooth...

Don’t Pull My Leg – Pull My Tooth…

Everything that can go wrong usually does so on a Friday afternoon, when the repair fees are usually double. I remember losing a filling on a Friday evening, forcing me to go 2 days before seeing the dentist. It was a long weekend. That seems to be nature’s way.

This week it was different. Thank God.

Kerry’s sister Tina arrived yesterday to spend a couple of weeks with us and to give us a much needed break from the daily routines of caring for their parents. Tina is seeing firsthand what our daily life is like. This is her second time doing this and we are already planning on another visit in September, when Kerry and I will take a 2 week vacation.

Well, last night Kerry’s dad started complaining about a toothache. When offering him options all he wanted was some instant relieve from the ache. After a quick trip to CVS he was rubbing Anbesol on his toothache; the short term relief came quickly. After a restless night he informed us that the ache was still there. When I called his dentist first thing this morning, they were able to fit him in right away. They pulled the tooth. An hour later he was back at home, without the toothache; without the tooth. Thank God this wasn’t a Friday afternoon event. He would have been miserable.

I reflected with Red (Kerry's dad) on how interesting life must have been in the days of the old west, when dentists did their thing, without novacaine; just grab on to the tooth and pull…Now that’s got to hurt.

Food 4 Thought . . .

Food 4 Thought . . .

When looking at ways to have fun, the options for Red (Kerry’s dad) are limited. Then it dawned on me. “Hey Red, feel like making a trip to Costco this morning?” His reply was immediate and with conviction, “Yes!”

Once I got back from the gym and quickly changed into clean clothes. Red was waiting, excited about getting out of the house, even though it was only a shopping trip.

His spirit was up as well as his energy level. Once we arrived, he had his list and I had mine. I ran around loading up on needed items and he did the same. Finally I went looking for him. There he was, standing in the pharmacy area, trying to punch numbers into his cell phone. I knew he was trying to call me. I walked up behind him, tempted to wait for my cell phone to ring. It would have been funny to have him call me and ask me where I was only for me to reply, “Standing 5 feet behind you.” But I just walked up to him and asked him how he was doing.  He was pleased with his accomplishments. Together we headed to the meat department to explore the enormous varieties available (one of Red’s favorite things to do).

Within an hour, we both were getting tired and began working our way to the cashier. We didn’t have to wait in a line as there were several empty cashier stations. On the way home, we laughed and joked and I got to share in the moment…the moment that was Red’s joy. I smiled as I contemplated; I praised God.

I pondered at how much we have available to us, compared to what I saw in Senegal last year. How would those I met in Africa react to a place such as this? To learn more about my mission trip, please read my daily journal at  http://arizonacanadian.blogspot.com/p/reaf-4-free-rshunters-journal-africa.html

Thanks Costco . . .

A Prayer for Aging Parents...

                  

A Prayer for Aging Parents…

It was a great week with little or no bumps in the road. Kerry’s sister Tina is coming to spend a couple of weeks with us (arriving Tuesday). That means we get to take a break from our daily routines. Tina will also take over the cooking. At some point Kerry and I will head over to San Diego to dip our toes into the Pacific ocean as well as have a lunch at Point Loma Seafood (a must for anyone who loves squid sandwiches).

Kerry strained the muscles in her lower back while working (leaning over patients beds for years can takes its toll on the back). The doctor put her on light duty for two weeks. Of course we pray for her quick and complete recovery.

So, as this week comes to an end, we continue to count our blessings for the gift we have of watching over our aging parents. Here is my prayer for them;

Blessed Breath of God, of Life, breathe through me now. In this moment, I feel the sweet and merciful fullness of God in me. I have the wisdom, grace and love of God filling my soul.

Precious God, as I watch Kerry’s aging parents change and move through the cycles of life, I am filled with emotion. Help me to be a patient and loving care giver in this experience. Show me how to honor my feelings and how to be aware of all the lessons and gifts you have for me in this experience.

Kerry and I appreciate her parents and all that they have brought to our life. I feel the early taste of grief as I realize their mortality….and my own. Fill me with respect, a big heart and a giving spirit, Lord. Help me to know the right things to do in each situation; may I always be a Light to them as their journey continues.

Prepare me Lord, for what lies ahead. Only you know the richness of our journey, God. In our Oneness, I know you light the way for them and for me. May sweet and merciful angels be with our family throughout all of our days. I give thanks for the many gifts I have already received in this family and the gifts in the days to come.

All is well and God is good. Amen.

What a Day...Praise God

What a Day – Praise God

Last week, Kerry hurt her back at work (pulled muscle).  They have her on light duty and physical therapy. We will know more about her situation by the end of the week.

Kerry’s mom is the same as always, and with that, no news is good news. She still gets around and does her routines and seems to be enjoying her days, her activities, and her meals.

Kerry’s dad had an appointment today with his oncologist. He went in last Friday to visit the vampires (blood work) and the results were in the doctor’s hands as we arrived. We didn’t know what to expect. There were some levels that merit keeping an eye on but the most significant result was his PSA – his numbers were stable. They were only up by 6 points from his last test. The doctor considers that as a “No Change” level. That is a good thing. So far, every time we had his PSA’s checked, the numbers doubled. That rapid increase was a concern. With today’s results, Red (Kerry’s dad) walked out of there with a skip in his step and a whistle in his song.

To celebrate, we did one of Red’s favorite things…we went walking through the local Asian supermarket. We bought squid, rice, mung beans, pork dumplings, and a few other weird items. Red was having a good time. After lunch, he and Chris (Kerry’s mom) rested for the rest of the day. Red does have those annoying aches and pains that seem to be his constant companion. A long soak in the tub helped him relax. I ache too; must be an aging thing.

Now that dinner is done (Mexican night) they are in their apartment waiting patiently for the results show for The Voice and Dancing With the Stars. We will all sleep well tonight.

What a day…praise God.

The Elderly Around the World

The Elderly Around the World

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses….
Hebrews 12:1

This week I am thanking the Lord for elderly believers, whose lives testify to the faithfulness of God, every single day, no matter what. To be able to come to the end of your life, still trusting and giving glory to God, in spite of hardship, abuse, poverty, hunger, death of a child, chronic pain or any other combination of hurt from the reservoir of suffering in this world–that gives me the courage to go on. I am also praying for those who are living the end of their lives alone. Without God. Without family. Without the Body of Christ.

I live in a part of the country with many retirees. Attending a church service filled with elderly brothers and sisters is an awesome experience to me. As I listen to them share their stories and hear them join in worship, I am deeply moved in realizing that together and cumulatively they stand as a testament to thousands of years of God’s faithfulness. Every day. No matter what.

Kerry’s mom and dad are what you would consider “Shut-Ins.” We do have trips to the doctors multiple times a week for her dad (bi-monthly for her mom). Kerry’s dad also enjoys trips to Costco, even though it does wipe him out. That is the extent of their getting out and about; they are not getting around very much these days. With their limited energy levels, their spiritual strength remains impressive. When Kerry’s dad told me a few days ago that he had trouble sleeping I asked him what he did about it. “Oh, I just lay there speaking with God,” was his reply. Good Answer!

Here is my prayer for all of the elderly around the world;

Thank you, Lord, for the elderly whose lives complement the lives and stories in Hebrews 11–examples of faith in spite of everything. They stand as witnesses to me, that even if You never make my life any easier, that even if it gets harder–harder than I want to imagine–that I can trust You and fix my eyes on You. Thank You for how these sisters and brothers live out Your joy in suffering and Your hope in times of regret and despair.

I also pray for the elderly who have come to their final years, and after everything has been said and done, are faced with emptiness and meaninglessness–lives lived without You in the picture. God, I pray that in their sadness in looking back and fear in looking forward, that they would find You and know Your peace.

I pray for the elderly who are living out the end of their lives in poverty, abandonment, confusion and pain. Without You and without Your body being the hands and feet of Your love to them.

God, help me not to forget the elderly. Do not let my family be mindless and careless in ignoring the gifts and the needs of those who are older than us. Show me how to make a difference in the lives of lonely and suffering senior citizens in my community. And all together His people said, "Amen"

It's a Wonderful Day in the Neighborhood

It’s a wonderful day in the Neighborhood

Various reasons why today is going to be an awesome day (so far)

·         It’s Friday (Yahoo)

·         Everyone woke up today feeling pretty good (A blessing indeed)

·         The weather couldn’t be more perfect (Spring has sprung)

·         Kerry will be off work for the entire weekend (Rare these days)

·         The economy is getting stronger each day (Jobless #’s going down/Dow going up)

·         North Korea’s rocket launch “FAILED” (Snickering allowed)

·         God is good (All the Time)

·         All the time (God is Good

Need I say more?